I have been thinking a lot about this topic lately. In large part due to the anniversary of my losing my mom. I remember so many times over the last 18 years just wishing I could have her back. For me personally, I have been living with this life altering loss for almost 2 decades.… Continue reading hindsight
I have a dilemma & a confession One of the things I have come to know In the grand scheme of things, most people do not care what I think. No camera crew is staked out at my house waiting for me to let the world know my thoughts or feelings. My phone is not… Continue reading Take me back…
It is time for an intervention. My poor blog post that was ready to go has been demoted because apparently I need to tell you something. I will admit that I have been up since 4:30am & have spent 3 of those hours driving. Based on both of these factors, I decided that this blog… Continue reading Tough Love
I am going to try to stay true to how this experience felt but I know that no matter how hard I try, it will not convey how well the questions were actually asked or the calm, centered voice on the other end of the phone facilitating the exercise. Look at a time in the… Continue reading What does it feel like?
I remember in my twenties thinking that people who always seemed happy were obviously medicated. There was no way these people were actually always happy, I knew for sure I wasn’t. It didn’t seem sincere, it didn’t seem possible. Fast forward a decade or two and we arrive to me today. I seriously doubt I… Continue reading Shift baby shift
Parents are actually human beings too Seems silly at first but it’s actually really profound (If I do say so myself) Think about it for a moment. Why would they think of us that way? We have them and we are totally responsible for everything in their lives We feed them, clothe them, take care… Continue reading The greatest lesson we forget to teach
When I was young there were two places outside of my own house where I saw my extended family, the ‘city’ & the ‘shore’ That tells you a few things, I grew up outside of the ‘city’ and I grew up in New Jersey (a well-known fact that only people from NJ call the beach… Continue reading beach…..